Missing my dear brother Kuya Donato

I miss my brother, Kuya Dr.Donato Cabrera very much but especially today on his first year death anniversary. I had a deep admiration for him ever since I was young. I was about 9 years old when he left the Philippines for the US . I wanted to be a doctor just like him , he rightly suggested I become a Medical Technologist instead .After college graduation, I too came to the US. He supported and guided me until I was able to be on my own. 45 years ago, he stood as my father as he gave me away on my wedding. We were both busy and occasionally see each other after then . In 2012, he moved to California from the Midwest , and we lived closer to each other. I’m so grateful and happy for those last 6 years. We became very close not only as siblings but most especially as best friends! We had chance to talk and know each other well as we have not done before. I realized how truly brilliant he was and had inspired me more! He talked to me about music, books,movies, art and much more . And many things about our father who died of heart condition just like him when I was only 3 years old. He encouraged me to read more . He carried a list of his 100 favorite books all the time and the first thing he wanted to know when he came was where the nearby library and gym were . Everyone was inspired by his heathy living , he ate in moderation and would not miss a day without going to the gym. He loved good food and would tell me what Filipino food he had tried to cook. He also liked fast food , we discussed his favorite hamburger joint and my favorite pizza parlor and our shared choice for the best pad thai place and how he thinks there’s nothing like Chinese food! He had a bucket list and one of them is to see the Grand Canyon and took a wonderful trip with him there. He talked with pride about his children as well as mine. He respected Mike’s opinions and advice as a physician like him. He always mentioned the great time he had in NYC at Chris ‘ wedding and how we danced at the reception. He had awaited Natalie’s wedding for a long time and sadly will miss it. I miss all these about him but he will continue to be my inspiration.